Be a happy-go-lucky person

Master Hongyi: "After doing your best, choose to go with the flow, people's hands are so big, there are too many things they can't hold, everything in the world is empty joy, nothing really belongs to you, you come, everyone is happy, you leave, your hands are empty, the only thing that belongs to you is every moment you live." Life sea sea, mountains and rivers, not beyond. Through the rain, across the years mountains and rivers, eventually you will find that life is just so. This life is nothing more than a process, after a hundred years, dust to dust, dust to dust, you return to dust. Life is a traveler, why thousands of knots. As Mo Yan said, "A person's life is a process." There is no eternal life, there is no youth, when the time comes, the old old, the old walk. In the end, we are just passengers in this world. Both for passing guests, and why persistent, grateful to meet, cherish the possession, is enough." People in this life, ups and downs, there are many uncertain factors, a lot of things we can't control, a lot of feelings we can't retain, a lot of people we can't figure out, too tangled, upset, too much care, heart tired. "Zhuangzi" wrote: "If you know that it is impossible to do anything, and if you are safe, you will be virtuous." The wise man does not fight life, but tries to allow it to happen. Allow regret, stupidity, ugliness and hypocrisy. Allow giving without return. When you allow all this, you will gradually become an all-embracing person. Can accept all the imperfection, can understand all the not easy, do not care about gain and loss. The writer Su Qin once said, "One must see the world more." Travel, reading, anything that can make the heart richer, even if you force yourself to try more. Because people are narrow, tangled, and weak, all because they have seen too little of the world." The so-called seeing the world is to see the real life, through seeing the world, seeing sentient beings, so as to understand life, see themselves, and then know the depth of life. In the face of all kinds of life, we can be more rational, more calm and calm, see everything as light, and be easygoing, casual and carefree. The Buddha said: "All the Fa in the world is a sign of corruption and insecurity." Gain and loss with fate, the heart does not increase or decrease, lost again is to complete, and must not necessarily regret. The mind and body are not stagnant, that is, Prajna. Everything in the world, try, will no longer regret; Heart, will no longer regret. Life is short, we have to learn to be kind to ourselves on the way to getting old, confused and not serious, generous and not angry, all things look light, happy-go-lucky. That's it. That's good. What group? In whose group? Who do you fit in with? In the world of the ugly duckling, the swan is also guilty, there is no need to fit in, just be yourself. -- Schopenhauer